Sunday, May 18, 2008
its funny how some people dread not being in any form of relationship cos life is just too lonely and boring and yet some other people loath the madness of being in one..ok like it or not, i think everybody would have known that in any form of r/s.. let it be gf/bf, husband/wife, teacher/student, instructor/trainee, friends.. THERE ARE FRICTIONS, they are issues.. and that is where, it separates the good ones from the not so good ones..
ok fine, i admit to those having the bad ones.. its easier said then done.. but seriously, tell me what is easier done then said? nothing? dont you agree? so suck it up man. between 2 parties and more.. there are r/s and there are give and takes.. you win some you lose some.. or you win win or you lose lose.. POINT IS, it doesnt matter which one it is, as long as you're happy with it, and the other party is, then well, things are much happier then eh?
there are no right/wrong/1 solution fit all for any r/s problems.. that i know for sure.. some stuff works for others some dont.. yes for some r/s there is the tyrant and the follower no spine no brainer.. then for some there is the compromise on everything (50/50) for both ends.. etc etc.. you get the drift. so ya, just be diplomatic and work things out.. if cannot, then ok, move on.. yes its hard, i know how that feels.. trust me.. but ya i guess its the only logical process..
ok till now suddenly i lost my train of thoughts.. ok yeah, you must be a ball.. bounce back.. i guess, life is like a bicycle ride.. at times its flat road, at times its a hill but remember after that high climb up, there is the gentle roll down =)
smoke on the water.
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