Sunday, February 11, 2007
i like it when you realize, there is always something to learn. from there, you take a step forward or you move on to the next level.. well more importantly in relationships.. yeah example, you have a friend whom you know for ages.. but there bound to be time where that line, bind and ties you have with that person will be tested.. from there, you learn something new about your friend..
ok perhaps not something new, more specifically you learn how to understand them better.. you learn how to react to it better, you learn what to say, what not to say, what to do etc etc.. you get the idea.. i guess that is where you take the relationship to the next level.. next level in a sense, both of you just have a better understanding of each other..
and this maybe overlook, but i think if you understand the other person more, you come to understand yourself more too.. certain things will be brought to light on why you act/behave the way you are or whatever ah.. for example, something happend..then you realize that you're somebody who needs to feel some sense of connection with your friend..dont mean you hang out with the friend all the time, the sense is there and sadly during that time, it was missing (this is about understanding yourself more) to you, its not just a simple meet up, hey hi bye later thing.. its DEEPER.. its about tat eye contact, its about that smile and touch.
then you also realize that your friend actually see you more than just a simple friend ( this is about understanding your friend more) they see you more than just a simple individual but someone worth caring about. and that they know you shouldnt or should do something cos they know you're better than that.. and that your action may have adverse effect on them, emotionally or mentally or physically.
i came to learn something new today about my friend and my friend about me and of course me about myself..
if something meant that much to someone, then its worth it. =)
smoke on the water.
1:40 AM
